ok.. this isn't really directed towards anyone in general. and i know quite a few people will disagree on this... probably most of the people that end up reading it.. if any. but after watching a video on break.com.. http://break.com/index/indian-tv-host-slapped-in-the-face.html to be exact.. i realized that girls/women/ladies.. whatever they want to be called.. exercise the fact that they think they have this... power, to slap a guy and not expect a slap back. i mean sure.. girls can be emotional. heck they can throw pillows or slap a guys chest or something. but to me.. i think a slap in the face is wayyyy too... much i guess? and is asking for one back, regardless if its accidental from rage, or purposely. if the man deserved it on the other hand.. like he cheated on her, spent a good amount of her money behind her back, or anything like that, then am all for it i guess. but seriously the excuses i hear from others is that.. women are fragile, or other things like women are weak, and real "men" don't hit women back. or other ridiculous crap around the same block. but seriously, if a woman starts shit with you because all you do is lounge around, or disagree with something she likes, and you guys get into an argument and she slaps you because apparently she cant take it anymore, i say she deserves a slap back. of course i don't mean you can break her face in because she hit you, more than a slap would be a little too drastic for me, as i'm sure there are a lot of buff/ripped/built men out there who, with probably one punch could destroy a woman's face for life. but just a serious firm slap to tell her that she shouldn't be exercising such actions without knowing SOME physics, "with every action comes an equal and opposite reaction." so in general, LETS SAY HYPOTHETICALLY SPEAKING, if she slapped you on a scale of 1 - 10 and it was a 5, you shouldnt be hitting back at 10, but at 5 as well, dont take out your anger in that swing, just let her know some simple physics.
and the guys that are there that back up their ladyfriends and try to kick your ass just cause its "disrespectful" to hit a female, even if she started shit with you by slapping you first, should just LISTEN to the conversation before shit hit the fan and JUSTLY verify if that girl actually DESERVED it or be on guard to see if the guy will throw a punch or some shit, then you have all means to defend the lady, but seriously, 1. ganging up on the person slapping BACK 2. beating on the person that slapped BACK just cause you're buffer and you think it's disrespectful to hit girls (like to two guys constantly beating on that contestant just cause he slapped her back once and asked them why she could slap him on the show), seems to be the same shit to me, i dont know about anyone else, the only reason females are "more fragile" is because they dont build muscle like guys do, and if they do then they're not fragile at all. so if the female's friend is buffer, he should be watching himself too, cause if you hit someone not as strong as you are, isnt the same as hitting a female? someone physically weaker, more fragile than you?
im sure that whoever reads this thinks that im one of those guys who beats on women and crap, but i dont, i seriously absolutely think its an asshole thing to do, unless of course the woman, starts throwing punches at me, then i have all the right at self defense. i just hate irrational, ignorant people. of course this is my two cents and i would only like to rant and let it out for it to linger in other's minds while they think about it. im not saying what im saying is fact and should be interpreted in no other way, but i seriously want people to think on this and try to see where im coming from and stop this nonsense of "slapping a female is not seen as 'manly" but you know.. "only real men weark pink" and "real men cry" (which i dont think it takes a real man to cry, just a human being that has emotions)
Chris--
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